Here are 10 signs you should look out for to quickly identify a psychopath. If you think you're fat, he will tell you how much he loves your body.
This is not an exhaustive list, but it can give you a starting point for examining your relationship.
That's why we understand each other." If there's an obscure book you love, he will make sure he loves it too. Pay careful attention to what a psychopath says on the first few dates about his exes and other people in his life. Does he break his foot on your second date and has to cancel? ) Did he lose his first wife in a car accident that left him with brain trauma (yet he talks fine and seems fine)? Everyone wants great sex, but those who have been with a psychopath often say it's the best thing they've ever experienced. A form of keeping you off balance -- but also possibly an unconscious slip of the mask of his persona. The first step in that is usually to give you the silent treatment over something.
What he's doing is called "mirroring." He has no real identity, so he sucks yours up and mirrors it back to you. Try to check out his stories -- call hospitals if you need to -- but don't be surprised if he has an excuse for why you can't find any record of any of his traumas. Psychopaths are also known to disappear for days at a time.
Narcissistic infidelity differs from "normal" cheating, because a narcissist feels no shame or remorse for what they've done.
In fact, they convince themselves it's your fault, and actually lead the new partner to believe they're a victim of you.
A narcissist will talk about marriage and having kids with you, while sleeping with another person.