Black women are very keenly aware of the existence of this mentality, and they don’t want any part of it.They’re usually not going to be comfortable with the idea of being an experiment for a random horny guy.Last year, blogger American expat Nicole of Nicole Is the New Black, blogged about her wonderful experience while on vacation in Iceland.What is so attractive in this Nordic island country?I am a low maintenance kind of gal so I never had a problem taking a hike and ending up at a watering hole.I somehow always ended up with white guys who loved my hair and it didn’t matter if they were younger or older.
I find it very interesting, though, that white men are most reluctant to date black girls. And, what white women do not see is that this pool of men avoids black women.I don't know a black woman who hasn't experienced -- several times over --being blown off by a group of black guys at a bar/club and then witnessing them send over a round of drinks to a table of white girls who, in return, send them back (because they don't date black men). What is sad is that black women lose twice: First, black women have almost no one to date, not even black men.This can translate into being involved in activities that won’t work well with weaves or an expensive blowout.I have never been that girl who spent loads of money and half a day at the salon.Second, black women are now labeled as being really rude to nice white girls with black men, as having "attitudes" and having "issues."It's not about saying interracial love is wrong. But black women aren't wrong for having serious concerns about the trend if they clearly know that the trend is hurting, rather than helping them.