I don't want to be too hard on you because I'm sure you are hurting, and that's payback enough. Well, the first thing you should do is learn from it.Admit your errors to yourself and accept that the situation is nobody's fault but your own. His best friend is also a good friend of mine and I don’t know how, but I have just fallen for him.
I mean, we've heard the charming phrases like "bros before hos" and "chicks over dicks" so frequently that the notion is ingrained into our minds: Don't date your ex's buddy and don't date your friend's ex. Without rhyme, reason, logic and common sense, we often find ourselves inexplicably attracted to someone. True friendship and true love are both elusive the key is trying to get them both!
So he took solace in the fact that he cannot marry me.
But now that we decided to end the affair, he couldn't help but bring back his feelings and confess them before I hook up with someone else.
Honestly though, it sounds to me like you’re not ready to jump into a relationship with a new guy yet, even though you have a crush on him.
You still have feelings for your ex, which is completely normal.
It takes a while to get over someone you really cared about.