The last few months we have been about 1 hour and 15 mins away from each other, but last weekend he move so now it’s only a 35 min trip. We had really open, frank discssusions about what we both want from the future.Even on our first date we were telling it straight and laying out what we want from life, as neither of us wanted to waste our time.So I told him and he stayed." They quickly after began dating seriously. Six months after that, they got married at Brooklyn City Hall. Bored, and alone, she visited Omegle, a site similar to Chatroulette that connects strangers at random.There were two ways of communicating on the site: video and text.Not so with Sam—whom she agreed to make a date with after six weeks of emails and hour-long phone calls. "I thought, 'Oh my gosh, this is a real man, not just an email! Lesson learned: Keep expectations low; it can take a while to find a match.Even with a system like e Harmony, whose detailed matching process saved her from "kissing a lot of frogs," you still have to feel that chemistry.It was a sort of do-or-die moment because I wasn’t having a ton of luck, and I took a risk I wasn’t entirely comfortable with.But after messaging a bit, I saw that he was cool, super nice, and made me feel really comfortable.
"I thought, 'What the heck, it's not like I'm going to meet the love of my life!Joining e Harmony, which matches couples based on a detailed personality questionnaire, says Anna, "was my backup in case I didn't meet anyone the 'regular' way." It took six months of being matched with other e Harmony members before she met Sam."His profile struck a chord—he was very spiritual, for one thing, which was important to me." Those other matches had interested her, but fizzled once they got past initial communication. Six months later, Anna and Sam were engaged; they got married in April 2010.We decided to meet for burgers, and we hit it off immediately.We’ve been together for four years." -Val, 31"After a few short messages discussing classic punk bands, I decided to meet up with this guy one of his favorite bars.He’s said he’s certain I am the lady for him and we will get married and have babies etc. When did you meet, what was your first date like, how long have you been together, have you gone on to get married and have kids etc? All just out of interest really as I don’t know many people in real life that have done online dating.